Along with being a highly successful business-owner in the Dance-Arts industry – Shirley has led a life filled with tremendous joy and moments of great challenge.
In her community of Surrey, British Columbia, Canada – Shirley served on city planning committees, and worked with the Surrey Board of Trade, Tourism Surrey, Surrey Teachers Association, and the Arts Council of Surrey.
As a director of a large, highly-recognized, long successful competitive dance-studio – Shirley greatly supported the arts communities both locally and nationally through her teaching, choreographic and mentoring contributions to the careers and lives of hundreds of young performing-artists, many of whom went on to dynamic careers of their own as professional dancers, teachers, and studio-directors.
Along with her studio, Shirley is well-respected in the Dance-Arts communities for her work as an Examiner (with the Canadian Dance Teacher’s Association) for both student and professional examinations and also serving on their Executive Board for many years.
During this time involved in the arts – Shirley’s husband became gravely ill and in 1993, devastatingly lost his battle with cancer (dying of a brain tumour.) Through her deep sense of inner-strength, she continued with life as best possible, caring for her 3 beautiful daughters (at this time, still in their teens) – as well as remarkably continuing to successfully steer the ship of her thriving studio and business.
During this life passage, Shirley felt a shift within her life-perspectives, and this seed now planted, would eventually lead to her make significant change from her flourishing Dance-Arts/Directorship career into new gateways of light. Along the way, the hurdles of challenge would collide within this life’s journey, but with her deep faith, she would continue to pursue moving towards her greater purpose.
A series of strange spiritual happenings, too large to be ignored, pushed her to explore more into the spiritual world and the Science behind it.
Hopeful she’d found love, once again – Shirley remarried. This union was not as it once appeared and ended in a disastrous divorce. The painful experience found her searching for help to alleviate her sense of brokenness.
But, with every moment of crisis, Shirley has held intuitive inner callings, and through this ability, has been able to sift through to find the silver-linings within each of her life’s challenges. Help soon arrived, and Shirley continued to walk through gateways of hope & promise, as they were each presented.
It was during this time in her life that she began to learn how her co-dependant behaviours were addictions, themselves. This passage led to Al-Anon, where she studied the principles and took part in various 12-step programs. Her natural vibration of teacher re-surfaced, and she eventually became a speaker, as well as facilitated small women’s groups – working with them on a close intimate basis, as a support-person.
Shirley realized these principles were key to living better lives, both personally and professionally. Her daily-life was now being nurtured back to its state of joy and well-being and she decided to deepen her studies – seeking as much education & knowledge in which to inspire, motivate and support the lives of others, in particular…women.
Based on her own life experiences, Shirley delved into deep study with the ambition to not only educate herself, but to design methods and pathways to help other women.
One of her first topics was to study “Science of the Mind” (not to be confused with Scientology) to better understand manifestation through an affirmation known as a treatment and how negative thoughts which create negative emotions cause physical maladies in our bodies. Louise Hay was one of the founders of this methodology, based on the principles of Ernest Holmes, Science of Mind.
After reading “Biology of Belief”, by Bruce Lipton, Shirley came to understand that accessing the subconscious assists the process of integrating positive affirmations – and so she enrolled in two modalities recommended by Lipton.
Shirley now holds certifications in both Basic and Advanced Psych-K – methods which accesses the subconscious and changes beliefs that operate within us, that most are unaware of.
As well she holds certification in Inner Resonance Technology, which uses hypnotherapy to access the subconscious and is used very effectively in aiding healing.
OTHER COURSES AND CERTIFICATIONS
Certifications
Strategic Intervention Coach (by the Robbins-Madanes Training Centre)
Marriage Education & Divorce Prevention (by the Robbins – Madanes Training Centre)
Quantum Healing Hypnosis Therapy – Level One Certification
Courses
The Silva Mind Control Method
The Trust Technique
One of her proudest moments in her educational realms was receiving a personal email from Cloe Madanes, herself, offering Shirley praise & compliments regarding her coaching strategies she used in her sessions and training with the Robbins-Madanes Training Centre.
Through life-knowledge, educational experiences and formal-training, Shirley has successfully helped many women-in-crisis, one on one , as well has designed and developed many spiritual retreats leading women to a greater understanding of themselves and skills to live an enriched life.
Through her innate connection to (her own) inner horse-spirit, Shirley at the age of 65 full filled a childhood dream to own her own horse. She chose to adopt a somewhat older horse from a rescue centre; it turned out he had some anxiety issues and manageable health issues but Shirley persevered and was rewarded with a heart connection that was greater than she ever imagined !
She attributes a good part of the success to the courses taught in “The Trust Technique.”
With such a vast collective of life experiences and training – Shirley now thrives in life, ebbing and flowing with tremendous knowledge – able to embrace all the goodness the universe has to offer, and tackle the toughest of moments. With the empathetic perspective and deep caring long held within her Soul, her ambition is to impart all that she holds within her knowledge base to aid others to live their own life’s greatest journeys!
Ever grateful to my Spiritual Sister - Ronelle Roode Brothers for creating this website complete with writings.💖